Failure in life is one of disappointment event that no one would like to
meet. When we fail, we become like a patient admitted in the hospital;
we need confort, some one to be closer to you, love and care.
The opposite comes true to many people when another person fail. It is like the story in the book 'ONLY FOOLS DIE'.
In that book the author argue that, for any dealth there is a foolis
reason reason that a died person is associated with, for example, a
malaria died person may be associated with lazziness, "Why did they delay to take him to the hospital?" one may say; in a car accident you may hear "The driver was so fast, but the passengers were just silent or shouting, 'speed up we are late'" This is how always people act.
Athough we hate failures, but we always meet some failure in life.
Failing in one area does not prove disability in other areas of life,
that may be a mechanism that enhance specialization in the society.
I do not support failing, but the fact remain the same tha we sometimes
fail and but also forget ourselves when we see others failing in areas
that we are successiful, for example in academics, when a student fail
many people say he was so lazzy, he/she involved in extra
curricullum activities other tahn academics. The reason given may be
true, but should we react that way? On the other side we may misjugde
failed fellows because failing in an exam may be a function of some
psychologica, physiologica, bological and /or sociological changes just
few minutes before commencing the examonations. Actually, judging the
failed as lazzy is like the statement one given in the title of the book
ONLY FOOLS DIE.
All in all, the fact remain, we become successiful not because we can
be so, but because of God's mercies. A failed person needs love.
comfort, closeness just like a patient in the hospital. Lets help the
needy in times of truble and not adding more trouble to them by blaming
their weaknesses. Even if they have weakenesses associated with their
failure, are you perfect to stone them?
'A friend in need is a friend indeed' and Dini iliyo nzuri ni kuwasaidia wajane na yatima, wenye shida na taabu.
Pray for all in trials, troubles and disappointments. This perfect our
life in Jesus. When you face a faile person, ACT, do not REACT
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